All he wants to Email, MSN or text about is his dic ... What to do?

I was dating a man for 4 years, we recently broke up. He moved to So. Cal, He has asked me to come there, so as it were... We are now dating again, but we are thousands of miles away.





Whenever we text, MSN, talk, or Email all he wants to do is talk about sex, see pictures, or masturbate on MSN (because he has a webcam and I don't)


I have told him, that this makes me mad, and that I will not send pictures or videos... and every time we MSN it ends with him masturbating on webcam. UGH... I've learned to have a movie in or something so I don't have to sit there and watch.





But I have discussed with him that this is annoying, but he says its because he hasn't been getting any and is really horny. I think thats total crap... When we were dating- He was a freak about porn. He made me wait for 2 months once just because he was so into it.





I don't know how to say it blunty to him that its not a turn on anymore. Its a nuicence.





I wonder what is your outside perspective?

All he wants to Email, MSN or text about is his dic ... What to do?
hes just horny, why dont you get a webcam that way both of you can enjoy yourself together. Maybe your just jealous he is getting pleasure but not you.
Reply:Why are you wasting your time on this moron? Can't you find a normal guy where you live?
Reply:Tell Him Straight.... Dont Delay





Say how you feel about it, dont be submissive be in control :) x
Reply:well now is tha time to open yo legs girl. let the man do his thing and then he can decidde if he likes you or not
Reply:He is a sex freak. Tell him one more time that his type of behavior on webcam and msn bothers you and is not a turn on and ask him to stop or you will not communicate with him anymore.





If he continues to do it then make good on your promise.
Reply:tell him its creepy and to stop or join in with a webcam.. and if he dosnt want to stop and u dont want to start its time to look for a new guy..
Reply:Just stop talking to him and move on he is just trouble