Broke up over text,msn, email or phone?

if someone did or has dumped you any of theses ways how would you feel?


1) hurt they didn't have the balls to tell you to your face yet it just shows what a coward they were


2)upset but at least they didn't see you cry over them in person


3) wished that they had said it to your face at least that way you would of understood why it ended more and be allowed to put forward your own feelings


4) other?


just wondering due to the fact my ex did this to me yet i'm not sure how i should react to his actions he was a nice person and i guess i just expected better from him

Broke up over text,msn, email or phone?
i would have been pissed that i got together with someone who was too immature to say something to my face. i would think, "wow, i got with an immature coward who can't own up to things ever in his life"...but then again, we officially got together over a text message too...so i should have seen it coming.
Reply:all of them but at the end of the day that peron aint worth your tears.youl look back and ask yourself why you even went out with them
Reply:happen to me over the phone.


what a jerk; i told him he was coward for not having the balls to tell me to my face .





call him and tell him how you feel.
Reply:u should not even worry about it cuz she must of was hiding something from u and plus hoes come and go dont worry about it youll find somebody out there for you trust how old are u?
Reply:it is kinda cowardly. but sometimes it's the only option. because of distance. i think it just really depends on how long you were together. if a guy i dated for three years broke up with me through text i'd be pretty pissed. but what if it was a guy i say dated for a week...not the same i guess..
Reply:hurt they didn't have the balls to tell you to your face yet it just shows what a coward they were


this happened to my step-daughter. She was so upset. She got to school and hung up all over the commons area notes as to how big of a pu*** he is.
Reply:well at least it wasn't on a post it!
Reply:I would laugh that they were so pathetic that they didn't have the balls to watch my heart break
Reply:glad. over msn, at least you have the option of screaming and yelling at thin air. and then responding with a dignified answer.





don't worry girl, mine broke up with me over msn too.
Reply:You should have had the chance to react in person. Now you feel cheated of closure on the relationship. That will make you harbor negative feelings longer. IF you let it.


Do NOT let that person wreck your day/week/month...


Choose to move on and NOT be a victim.
Reply:well i say number 3 coz my ex broke up wit me in a text and i felt so upset, hurt and confused
Reply:I was dumped over text message... Actually that was the day when I haven't seen him for a whole month, so he texted me just to know how I was first and I was so glad. But then it turned out that he just wrote to let me know we're finished. Well I cried for the whole night... I also went over to his place after that to talk about the matter, he looked confused and upset, but told me he didn't love me anymore... What a humiliation... Time passed and now I am once again happy and in love! ;-) So don't worry, everything that comes in life is for the best, you will meet 100% a guy that you really deserve! Good luck! Treat yourself, spend more time with friends, that will help you to get over him :-)
Reply:dont read to much into it. just try to move on
Reply:4) i would go up to his face tell him off then beat the crap out of him. srry i had some guy break up with me on txt i mean come on. at least he didnt date for a while bcuz of a broken nose
Reply:well, personally i like to use these methods to dump guys. it allows them to go on with their lives thinking whatever they want about why i did it. i have one guy who thinks that i have a fear of opening up and getting close to men, and another who thinks i am an evil witch who was cheating on him. when in reality, the first one was just bad in bed, and the second one (out of nowhere) just became so irritating to me that i couldn't stand to hear his laugh or watch him chew or listen to him breathe. this way, in their minds, it is totally my fault. if i would have done it in person, an argument would have ensued and i would have said very hurtful things. then they would have gone into their next relationship feeling self-conscious.





so, i guess when it's my turn to be on the receiving end I will go on with my life thinking that he's a coward and he broke up with me because he can't handle a real woman.





everyone wants "closure" but, that is assuming there is a logical and understandable reason for everything.
Reply:first hes chicken and was to afraid to see you upset because he didnt want to feel the pain of the break-up.





Second, I'd be really upset and angry. Really angry because you didnt get a say. People breakup that way because they don't want to give the other person a chance to sway them back, obviously his reasoning was not good otherwise he could have stated his case and walked away intead of hiding like a child.





NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.