Is it okay to Text/Msn/Email this?

Okay first of all, if you have time give this a read.. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... Its nothing to long. Anyway.. Ive decided to tell him i cheated on him (please don't be judgmental) If you read it you will know what way i cheated on him (hand-job - Yea i know its wrong and im so ashamed) anyway. I have decided i have to tell him. I can't do it in person or on the phone. I really just can't. Would it be okay to either Text, msn or email him this. Which ones most ideal. I really love him and i don't want to hear or see his reaction because i believe he will be deeply hurt other then stressing out at me. So is it okay to do this? And if so, which one? Thanks.

Is it okay to Text/Msn/Email this?
Well i think that all of them would be worse than in person or on the phone, but if you can't do it, don't make yourself more nervous by forcing yourself to. I would say don't text him. Other people could read the message, and it's really impersonal if you know what i mean. MSN might be good if you knew he was on for a while and could talk to you about it. However, I would probably email; just take time to write it and think long and hard about what you want to say. Try to say exactly how you feel and how sorry you are. If he doesn't respond right away, or only responds with anger, give him time. "Anger is the stuff love bleeds when it's hurt." Give him time to think it over and sort out his feelings, and you do the same. If he still hasn't said anything for a couple of days, email or call him and see if he got your message and what he thought. Hopefully you will be able to talk through it and save the relationship.





Good luck!
Reply:You did wrong and you know that. but email, text and msn are so impersonal. they show no connection. You have to be strong and take the consequences of your actions. you need to either do it by face or phone. or else its really not fair on your boyfriend. you cheated and then didn't have the balls to tell him to his face. you have to do this for his sake.
Reply:Just tell him in person, he'll thank you for it later. It'll be harder but person is the way to go, just meet him for lunch or whatever, something brief, but in a public place so he won't cause a scene. And just tell him look I'm sorry I have to say this but I cheated on you. Hey look on the bright side, humans are NOT meant to be monogamous.
Reply:i guess if u really cant do it face to face than txt or msn beacuse atleat then ur technically talking to him..not sitting there wondering if he has checked his email yet but if u truly love him u gotta tell him to his face if u want any chance of keeping him around.
Reply:... Do it... and MSN..





TBQH if he loved you ... then he wouldnt finish it with you, yeah he will be annoyed that u did it over MSN but still its better than gettin a slap lol...





Erm... yeah but MAKE SURE U SAY YOU REGRET IT AND I STILL WANNA BE WITH YOU AND BLAH BLAH BLAH GO ALL LOVEY DOVEY,IF HE STARTS TO END THE RELATIONSHIP SAY UR CRYING AND BLAH BlAH BlAH you get the picture
Reply:If you were a man I would tell you to grow some balls. But since you are a women the best way to do this is face 2 face. No txt no e-mail plain talking in person!
Reply:Do it in person but since that is not what your asking txt.
Reply:He will be hurt no matter what. At least be decent enough to tell him to his face.
Reply:You are taking the first step to recovery, but there is more than one step needed. All actions have consequence! You are semi-accepting responsibility for your actions by confessing, which is a very mature and adult approach. Now you must continue to act like an adult and inform him face-to-face. Be very honest withyourself here: Completely change the situation around...What if it were him confessing to you. If he sent you a text, what message would it send? Wouldn't you feel like: Not only doesn't he care about me because he cheated on me, but I mean so little to him that he texted me to tell me." How would you feel? I know that it's hard, but you've got to continue to be an adult about this and tell him face-to-face. Please send me an e-mail if you want to talk about this more or need more encouragment.